Life or Death: The Power of What We Speak

My friend’s face conveyed shock and hurt. The careless, harsh comment I tossed her direction landed like a grenade in the middle of our friendly lunch. Justification was futile. The damage was already done. The shrapnel from my words cut right through to my friend’s heart.

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I threw open the garage door and stared at my husband. He had an early flight but was working on a project late into the night.  His suitcase still unpacked, he looked up, bracing himself for the onslaught of my words. I took a breath, waited a moment, and asked him how I could help him get ready. Relief washed over his face as he relaxed and welcomed my offer of assistance.

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Have you ever thought about the power of the tongue, words spoken or written? 

Scripture compares it to a rudder. Such a small part, yet it determines the course of the entire ship.

Every day, we have the opportunity to use our words for good or evil. A careless, quick-tempered, or gossipy remark can lead to destruction. A thoughtful, encouraging, or gentle response can bring healing. Which will you choose?

Think over your recent interactions with others. Did your words bring hope or heartache?  

This week, take a quiet moment each evening to reflect with the Lord: “Did my words today build up or tear down?” 

Let His grace shape tomorrow’s words into life-giving ones.

The tongue has the power of life and death,
and those who love it will eat its fruit.

Proverbs 18:21 NIV